Beth Montemurro, "Charlotte Chooses Her Choice: Liberal Feminism on Sex and the City" (page 3 of 3)
The "F Word"
Given this portrayal, is Sex and the City feminist? While HBO
should be lauded for presenting women characters who are more complex,
over the age of 30, career-oriented, and not solely wives or mothers,
there are some problematic representations that should be addressed.
First, feminism seems to be a dirty word. Even though HBO is no
stranger to "strong" language, this one appears to be on the "do not
use" list. While Carrie, Samantha, Miranda, and sometimes Charlotte, act
in ways that are decidedly feminist (e.g., Miranda's resistance to the
demands of work and motherhood or Samantha's refusal to let her sexual
experiences be viewed differently from men's), rarely, if ever, are the
women or their actions labeled as feminist. When a show avoids
using the word feminist—seemingly because of its
still-stigmatized connotations in the age of postfeminism—it is
difficult to interpret the show as such. In the episode discussed here,
"Time and Punishment," Charlotte employs liberal feminism to defend her
decision without using the "f-word." Sex and the City fails to
escape the cultural trap of ambivalence toward women, their identities,
and feminism. In this sense, Sex and the City is a reflection of
the culture—and may in fact be more realistic than other shows
that firmly locate women as either feminine or feminist (and thus
masculine). Without being explicitly feminist, Sex and the City
still promotes feminist themes and provides four independent women
characters space to be like real women—fallible, complicated,
good, bad, and diverse. Furthermore, by having only one Charlotte, only
one of the four main characters who is interested and focused on
marriage and motherhood, and by giving her a long, hard road to travel
in her journey to realize those ambitions, Sex and the City
privileges women's independence rather than dependence on
men—something that has rarely been seen on network television.
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