The Promise of Artemis
Introduction
For my response to Dr. Stimpson's lecture, I propose to examine a
part of the Atalanta myth that is unelaborated, yet resonates with what
I know about girls' and women's involvement in sport and physical
activity. This is the role that Artemis, the virgin goddess of the hunt,
assumes when Atalanta's father tries to rid himself of his infant
daughter. In the guise of a bear, Artemis rescues and nurtures the
infant, who has callously been abandoned to die. Under the care of
Artemis, Atalanta lives to become a young woman and a celebrated
athlete, not only a runner and a wrestler but an archer as well. One
might even think of her as a martial artist, for she acquires the skills
to protect herself and, as Dr Stimpson argues, to "resist devaluation."
Here I take Dr. Stimpson to mean that Atalanta learns to challenge
anyone or anything that would undermine her sense of self-worth solely
because she is female.
The role of Artemis
At this point readers must allow me to freeze the frame, to fill in
the myth's gaps using my own imagination. I focus on Atalanta's
girlhood, during which she becomes strong, self-sufficient, and
independent. How does this happen? I suggest that it occurs in the usual
way, and here I refer back to the non-mythical world. Girls develop into
resourceful, self-reliant women by being supported and encouraged in
their endeavors. They develop with the help of mentors and role models.
And they develop by virtue of social structures that are built to enable
rather than disable the growth of female self-worth. Perhaps we can
think of Artemis as symbolically fulfilling these conditions. In this
way, the nurturing figure of Artemis is crucial to the vision that I
have of Atalanta.
Who or what acts as Artemis for girls who are not goddesses, but
mortals fashioned of muscles, bones, and blood? How do girls become
physically capable, able to hold their own in sports and games,
confident in the ways that they move their bodies? These are the
questions I would like to address in this response. I argue that there
are people and experiences in a girl's life that, at crucial junctures
in her development, can help her become physically strong and
autonomous. This strength may also enable other types of female power
and autonomy. Conversely, the presence of naysayers at critical moments
of a girl's development can diminish that potential.
The social construction of femininity
Let me begin by briefly reviewing what we know about the social
construction of femininity. In our society, the most salient fact about
the birth of an infant, apart from whether it's healthy, is its
gender.[1] The first
question posed to the new parents often is, Is
it a girl or a boy? Once the gender of the child is established, friends
and family members know whether to buy a dainty pink layette or a sturdy
toy dump truck.[2]
Parents impute different traits to their infants
long before any real physiological differences assert themselves.[3]
A girl may be described as quiet and delicate-featured; a boy may be
deemed noisy and robust. These stereotypes often mean that children are
treated differently by their parents. Caregivers may play with girls
gently, while they engage in rough and tumble play with boys.[4]
In a similar fashion, family members, teachers, peers, and other
significant figures in a child's life communicate different expectations
for girls and boys, even if they genuinely wish to rear a child in a
gender-neutral way.[5]
Since a key part of children's self-worth
depends on their feeling that they are competent actors in the world,
they quickly learn their gendered roles and to behave in ways that are
thought to be "sex-appropriate." In turn, when children "perform"
gender, their behaviors influence the ways adults treat them.
Socialization is a two-way street![6]
Adults and peers usually
reward girls for being demure, ladylike, and polite, while the same
behavior in boys will elicit teasing, ridicule, or punishment.[7]
In our culture, gender is constructed as oppositional so that femininity
and masculinity are not only different, but are actually opposed to one
another.[8]
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